However, people can work on themselves and get out of that situation given enough determination and want of it. People who are not capable of love have a tendency to blame problems on other people. They lack insight into how they may be contributing to the problem.
They are narrow-minded and only focused on how a situation or relationship benefits them or holds them back. They rarely put fault in themselves for things not working out as they planned. People who lack the ability to fully love someone have a limited ability to see their fault in situations or relationships.
Instead of working on things in the relationship as a two-way street, it's often one-sided. If someone can't even love themselves, how are they supposed to see fault in their limited and narrow mind?
They can't. And they won't even try. Again, having to own up to something would take some sort of self-awareness and knowledge about yourself. Instead, people who can't love will make excuses for their behavior: "Oh I was drunk, don't take it personally," "I don't usually act like that," and, my personal favorite, "You just made me so mad. Justification and making excuses are common in those who lack a sense of self and have no capability of loving another person. They simply give up if something or someone doesn't benefit them anymore.
They don't think about the other person. To be quite frank, they don't really care. When something no longer serves a purpose that favors the loveless person, their interest in a person and the relationship diminishes. As a result of the above statements, this person will not show much interest. As time goes on, you'll notice their attention span shortening almost as if they are saying they don't care without speaking the words out loud.
As a result of someone being unable to love and their general close-minded nature, they communicate infrequently. They will allow upset or hurt feelings to stir up inside of them until they can't handle it anymore and they explode. This frustration is within them so they really shouldn't be blaming someone else. They will emotionally withdraw from the relationship while you may or may not be aware of what is happening in their mind due to their emotional difficulties. You may be working on the relationship while they move further and further away from you.
People unable to love are also unhappy. They may explain this is a new thing or that it's been progressive. But here's the truth: The unhappiness started with the person and not having a clear foundation of who they are. They become unhappy because they don't know who they are. Me, me, me. It's always about them. It's always what they want first. No compromise. They don't care to find out who they are but they will take, take, take.
It is always about them. These folks are often very rigid and stuck in their ways. Optimistic children clinging tight to all we never had I'm not capable of love That kind of love that I felt when I was twenty-one Cause I'm not capable of love That kind of love Girl, I wish that I could take back Take it back You're the only one I want I wish that I could take it back Am I not capable of love?
Not Capable of Love song meanings. Add Your Thoughts 14 Comments. General Comment apparently this is going to be the new single from the new album.. Damon on November 10, Link. No Replies Log in to reply. There was an error. General Comment I agree with you. I understand when bands need to go in new directions, and "grow up" or "evolve" musicaly, but I truly miss the old Ataris.
It's sad that we will never hear the old ataris again. This song is alright and i'm sure it will grow on me, but the old ataris is what i grew up lsitening to and what got me through high school. General Comment if this song is any indication of the rest of the album i have to say i'm relieved.
General Comment this song is pretty rockin! General Comment This song is a really healthy mix of old Ataris ethic with the driving bass line and the lyrical styles, and also shoegaze a la My bloody Valentine. TetherGuitarist on December 30, Link.
General Comment I definitely get a new vibe from this song as compared to the old Ataris music. I understand that they want to evolve musically, but I will always miss the old sound.
This song is alright. I don't think Kris wanted to change the name because he still wants to play the old stuff at concerts. Just a thought. General Comment i'll miss the old ataris too but i can relate to the way they have evolved.
General Comment i do not like this song.
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